Gracie’s Silver Linings

  10 months since I finished my chemo and radiation and now learning to deal with all the complications of that and tamoxifen yet so thankful to be alive and able to celebrate mothers day tomorro with my kids! To all my sisters struggling thru this fbc – you are all in my thoughts and prayers! Enjoy your day, mom’s.

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Karen’s Silver Linings

I’m a two-time cancer survivor, who was like most when I heard the news, “a death sentence”. I found out later, it was truly “an awakening” for me. I did begin asking questions, to what had I done so bad in life to have this placed upon me. But instead of bemoaning my fate, I decided to look for the positive side of it all. I also realized that I was about to face a new beginning, new hope, do and see more with a whole new prospective on life. Even with all the complications I now have to live with, and all the struggles I’ve dealt with all my life, “I’m sill living”. Who am I to complain? During my collisions with cancer (breast/colon), writing became therapy for me. All that I had to endure, gave me the strength and encouragement to write down my thoughts and I placed …

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Maggie’s Silver Linings

My story is simply a complicated mess. I am an LPN and I started my own little blog, I do not post nearly as often as I should but it is call BreastCancerandMurphysLaw, Google has picked it up. I guess the main reason I started a blog was so no one should ever go through what I did. Being a nurse, obviously I do not have the credentials that you have but still, a nurse. Last December I went in and had my yearly mammogram, I was diagnosed with fibricystic breasts around 1985. A week later I got the call from the clinic, the voice said that they had found a suspicious area in my left breast but could not get me back in for diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound for 2 weeks. Ok probably just a shadow or tissue that had folded over. I went in, had the repeat mammogram …

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S.F.’s Silver Linings

Hi Hollye – Came across your site as I wanted to share my story (literally, see below) with others. But, saw your recent posting on Tamoxifen and I totally know where you’re coming from! I’ve been on Tamoxifen for about a year and I am so tired of waking up in the middle of the night, throwing off the covers and tossing and turning until I can get back to sleep (’cause, of course, there’s always that chain of thought… I’m hot, why I am I hot, oh, yeah, that again, why can’t I just put it all behind me…). It’s the head game as well as the physical discomfort that can get so tough. As for me, I was diagnosed with breast cancer when my daughter was five. I was terrified that losing my hair would make me less of a mother to her.  Then, a friend reminded me …

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Andrea’s Silver Linings

After moving to Santa Barbara last year, I heard about your blog. I was diagnosed in 2009 with breast cancer and survived through the ringer of mastectomy, chemo, radiation and seemingly every side effect known to man. You’ve done an amazing job. I just started my own blog,www.baldisbetterwithearrings.com where I’m trying to share all the hints and tips I picked up along my very bumpy road. I learned a lot during my initiation into the Cancer Club. Actually, I call it the CSC – the Cancer Sucks Club. I asked every survivor and every nurse for their tips to make my life a little easier and I’m trying to share them all. One post at a time. Good luck and stay well.

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Katie’s Silver Linings

    Dear Hollye, My name is Katie Stotler, 2 years ago I underwent a bilateral mastectomy. After coming home from my surgery I had to deal many difficulties including the presence of four drains. I had purchased a camisole from a local store which I found added to my discomfort. The camisole was not only visually unappealing, but the drain pouches were too high and I had an allergic reaction to the Velcro. I decided there needed to be a better product on the market. I teamed up with a friend and spent months researching fabrics, trims, fits and since then have developed a camisole I wish I had. The Perfect Camisole, as I like to call it, has everything women would need after surgery. Our fabric choice was a soft cotton which a touch of modal that washes and wears with ease. Subtle exterior and interior pockets accommodate …

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Valérie’s Silver Linings

I was reading today a lot of your stories, and I realized how much some of the stories I have been reading are similar to mine. It made me very emotional and in some ways i felt very close to these women i will never meet . Sorry, my english is not very good. I am French I am 41 years old and I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in my right breast on March 17, 2011. I was nursing my daughter when i felt a lump in my right breast, I first had a bad feeling and then I thought it was a clogged milk duct. I already had this “problem” a couple of times. I tried to solve this the way I used to do, but the mass was not going, it was big and hard. So big than my husband told me first than it …

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Shared Silver Linings

Shared Silver Linings

In the last week or so, there has been a beautiful surge in the number of people sharing their stories (the direct link to do so is: http://www.thesilverpen.com/category/shared-stories/ . You can also find the link the right hand column of the page under Conversations). I continue to be amazed, humbled and inspired by each and every story.  If you are in need of a pick-me-up, I highly recommend reading some of these stories.  They are the ultimate Silver Lining! Where do you find inspiration, hope and energy? What’s your Silver Lining?

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Sandy’s Silver Linings

It’s very hard to share my story or to find a place where I feel I belong because when I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in my right breast on January 16, 2011, I chose to opt out of the current standard of care treatments. Instead I had two lumpectomies (a second for wider clear margins). It was hard to stay “out of the main stream” treatment. But as I left my Oncologist’s office after stating my choices, she gave me a beautiful gift. She wrote on a piece of paper “David Servan-Schreiber MD ANTICANCER: A New Way of Life” and handed it to me, saying ” if this is the path you are choosing, you will need this book.” This book changed my life, my eating style and I am alive and cancer-free today because of the choices and changes I made in February and March of …

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Lisa’s Silver Linings

Lisa’s Silver Linings

I am a 36 yr old female who was diagnose with Breast Cancer on Feb. 15,2011. I had stage one on left and stage two on right with skin involvement and lymphnode removed on right side from involvement. I also had a double mysectomy last April and facing reconstruction in the fall.I had about 6 months of chemo and 6 weeks of radiation. I was told on March 21,2012 that there is no present signs of cancer.That was a year in waiting especially after I was told from previous Oncology dr that i will never here those words.That is because i have a very rare mutation that me and my sister got from my late father. My sister is a tyroid and breast cancer survivor also. I also am about less than a month out of radiation treatment. I have some more genetic testing to do for two more gene …

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